Book on Personality Development “VIKAS YAGNA” by vinodchandra.A.Parikh
1) What is Personality ?
Personality is the complex phenomenon of all the attributes of the person that characterize a unique individual.
Attributes – Physical-External Personality, Mind-internal personality.
Physical-External Personality Contributed by appearance, looks, style of action (walking, speaking, body language, behavior etc) of the person. He can impress, influence the person. More or less we all are expert and sincere about it, because first impression is the last impression. First we should look like good Personality figure.
Mind-internal personality. Contributed by human being characteristic, quality, responsibility, your belief, nature and intention, special qualification-expertise in different field, optimist & positive attitude, emotions, spiritual activities and helping nature for needy and proper person. Internal personality is the real personality which will appear on face as well action and behavior of the person. Now a days for interview for job these qualities are essential as they test IQ, EQ and SQ .
IQ-Intelligence Quotient . EQ – Emotional Quotient, S Q – Spiritual Quotient
We can think about famous person like Rastrapita Mahatma Gandhi, swami Vivekanad, Narshi Maheta, DR. Sarabhai, Saradar Vallabhbhai Patel etc – very good Personality & Compare our self with them we can think about our personality. Where we are at present ? Try to Build up your personality like them. A Good personality can impress, influence, convince, attract, motivate the people by the power of his Personality. They will be always successful . Factors that obstruct growth of your personality are bad quality, bad habits bad activities, bad characteristics, negative- pessimist attitude and these will be the cause of their failure . Try to reduce these bad qualities which obstruct growth of your personality. Try to acquire good qualities, habits, thought, action , behavior and positive-optimistic attitude for better personality like famous persons, saints and mahatma. It is obvious that water flow from high level to low level, similarly bad characteristic and habits are acquires faster and with less effort than good characteristic and habits. So be conscious about it and do not allow to cultivate bad characteristic and habits. Cultivate human being characteristics and be a perfect man, will develop your personality. Do not forget that you are human . Always remember that. 2
Very few Good qualities of the Man are as below for reference: Steady mind state & control over senses (Restraint) , Patience, Truth, Holiness, Noble, peacefulness and loving nature, Honesty, Pity, regularity, discipline, Satisfaction unselfishness, Helping poor and needy persons, Forgiveness, fearlessness, non violence faithfulness, respect for others, happy ,Obliging ,Simplicity, delightfulness well wisher for others, Patriotism, dishonesty, affection/attachment etc deficiency of these qualities will obstruct growth of your personality.
Very few Bad qualities (Vices) for reference – anger, frequently, shy in nature, always in hurry, over eating, irregular, late comer, irresponsible, miser, idleness, insulting other, boasting, greedy, roughness, Avarice, Theft, Insulting others, Luster desire, Violence/killing, Fascination, Obstinacy, Pride, Falsehood, envy, Jealous, Calumny/Criticize etc will take the graph of Personality below expectation. Experience these and try to get free from such bad habits & qualities & acquire good qualities and habits which enrich your personality. Six enemies residing in the inner self of a man which tarnish the image of good personality. These are lust, Anger, Greediness, affection / infatuation, envy/ jealousy, pride. All are dangerous element in our life. Try to remove them from your life to develop the personality.
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