Complain and Blame

When we loose,

we are unhappy,

and we did not get desire things then

we complain & blame concern person.

So to complain all the time

became our nature and

blame others for our failure.

Why to complain ?

What we get is our luck

effort, performance and

for our failure we are responsible.

what ever the situation and deficiency

we have to change or adjust

we have to bare or accept.

So there is no scope

for complain and blame

to hide our weaknesses and inability.

Instead of complaining and blaming,

try to face the situation or compromise,

try to solve the problem or accept it

try to improve your performance or bare it.

But do not make attitude

to complain and blame

No complain and blame is steady status.









Situation is condition or atmosphere
created by nature or man.

life is series of such situations which
effect or change the human
nature or behavior.

Human being should
face each situation by self control
or compromise with situation by accepting
or change the situation if he can,
depending upon his attitude, experince and capacity.

But do not get up set and loose the control.
Make practice to control the situation
instead of controlled by the situation.

Remember the fact that
situation is not great
man is great which can control the situation.
Over come the situation.
Ride on the situation.
It is the real success in the life.

Never mind

‘ Never mind ‘ is good attitude.
It is no mind stage,
means steady and balance mind.
Which does not get up set
in any situation it remains
Peaceful,cheerful and powerful.
In any situation Never mind,
do not get control by situation,
Control the situation.
If any one insult you or do not respect
Apply Never mind policy and
Do not get angry.
If any one do not help and speak then
Never mind, just smile and forget.
‘ Never mind ‘ is good attitude
To develop peaceful And cheerful life.


Success should be the Target of the life
To achieve what you decide and desire,
what you want and require.
Success can be achieved
By keeping target, planning
and executing till achieved.
Success in different field,
like service and business,
social and spiritual is the real success.
Failure not stop you to get success
if you do not leave effort till success.
Do not be so proudly and self boasting,
over excited and over estimated.
It is easy to get success but difficult
to digest and continue to get success


Courage is power and force
to do difficult, hard, risky work,
and to face any worst situation.
Courage does marvelous work
and take calculated risk, if it is
with awareness, consciousness.
and self control.
To acquire courage, first
we have to acquire fearlessness
then develop attitude like ‘ come what may ‘
Courage with hurry, hesitation and anger
may create worst situation and bad result.
Be courageous for Good work, right work
and required work.
If person does good work with courage
God always helps and guides him.


Appreciation is powerful tools,

to encourage and motivate  the person.

So he feels good  happy and develop further .

Appreciation means

label of reorganization of the work.

Someone does good and  unexpected

work then please appreciate and coagulation

so he may  energizes and motivates himself.

Do not be so miser in giving  appreciation.

Human nature want reorganization

and appreciation of his work.

If he did not get, he feels bad

discourages and becomes unhappy,

and no further development  is possible.

So it is necessary to praise

and appreciate good work.

If necessary give  suggestion and guidance.


Mercy is noble quality

of God, so called merciful.

Mercy is basic nature

of human being.

But he became merciless,

and acquired cruelty.

Every human being should have

mercy toward all living being.

When they  are ill, poor and handicap

hungry,  helpless and hopeless then,

please love, support and help them.

Also pray to God for their welfare.

So you become merciful like God.

You will be respected by people

and rewarded by God. So be merciful.