1721 Why Quarreling ?

Quarrel between person
or group will make you
unhappy & tense to both.
It breakes relations and
become enemy and try
to hurt each other.
Why quarreling ?
Need to think & find out
causes of quarrels to
eliminate and Create no
quarrel zone in family and
society to live happy and
peaceful life.
Some common causes
are given below which
can be eliminated.
* Lack of tolerance
* Difference of opinion.
* Ego of the person.
* Nature to direct the person.
* Habit of getting angry.
* Finding fault with other.
* Negative attitude of person.
* Nature of complaining.
* Nature of insulting.
* Telling lie every time.
* Cheating the person.
* Not to listen & obey elder.
* Criticizing the person.
* I am only right – attitude.
* Attitude to fight but not
to compromise.
* Not accepting mistake
* Focus on right,not on duty.
* High expectation.
Whenever there is quarrel
try to find out cause and
eliminate & compromise.
Quarreling is harmful to
self, family and society.
Vinod Anand 08/09/2019


1709 Eligibility of marriage

Boy or Girl, unless eligible
or qualify for marriage don’t
get marry for happy, peaceful
and success life, otherwise
life will be problematic for
both and their families.
* Eligibility & maturity age.
(Boy age >22-Girl age >18).
* Education & nice job to
fullfill all need of the life.
* Knowledge of married life
duties and responsibility .
* Development of physical
and mind personality, i.e.
Good nature, good habits
good emotion to achieve
Ideal human being status.
* Knowledge of child care &
Development before you
become parents.
* Mentality to live for each
other with family member.
* Don’t demand ideal wife
or ideal husband but be
a ideal person to marry.
Please get eligible for above requirements for marrige than
think of marriage, not before.
Vinod Anand 27/08/2019

1702 Activities after retire

Here are guide lines of
activities you can do
After retirement to
solve the problem of
time passing.
If you donot fix your daily
activities than you will
get bored & tired.
Activities you can do…
* Reading & Writing.
* Helping hand in family.
* Teaching grand son or
* Serve to society and
spiritual activities.
* Develop some Art like
drawing or craft.
* Do part time job.
* Matrimonial match activity
* Placement of job who is
* Coaching class for poor.
As per your past experience
select your best activities
& plan your daily activities
for healthy, happy, peaceful
and successful retired life.
Vinod Anand 20/08/2019

1676 Power of Money-2

Further to my post
power of money-1
Now a days power of
money is considered
greatest and bigest.
But donot give so much
important to money for
peaceful & happy life.
Money can give you
facilities and comfort
but cannot give you
happiness & peace.
Donot be so attached
to money which may
detach you from family.
Donot be so behind &
do wrong practice to
earn more money.
Donot spoil your health
to earn crores of money.
Later it cannot recover
your heath which makes
your life miserable.
Life is not for money but
money is for life to live
happy and peaceful life.
Money brings pride, bad
habits and bad nature &
negative emotions which
brings unhappiness and
difficulties and problem.
Money is powerful, if it is
utilized for the benefit of
mankind otherwise not.
Vinod Anand 26/07/2019

1675 Power of Money-1

Money is important,
essential & backbone
of life. Without money
survival is not easy .
Fourth requirement of
life is money after, air
water and food.
Without money third
requirement-food of life
cannot be fullfilled.
So fitst target of man
must be to earn money.
Before starting family life,
man must be capable
to earn enough money.
Power of money is to
influence any one, can
earn respect from others.
Any problem or work can
be get it done by the power
of money. Power of money
can be utilized for the
benefit of human being.
For further about power
of money readv my next
post – Power of money-2.
Vinod Anand 26/07/2019

1642 Handling of rude person

How to handle rude
people in family or
in office or in society.
Rude poeple speak
with anger & insult
with no reason due
to his rudeness.
First find out how he
become rude ?
May be the gift from
parent, self developed
or due frustrated in life
or intensely to control
the other people.
Accodingly behave with
to handle such persons.
Please don’t copy his
behaviour to handle
rude behaviour person.
Be clam & quite when
you come across.
Don’t aruge or point out
his mistake or fault but
first get connected with
emotionally & say please
control your emotion.
Say this attitude, nature
or behaviour increases
problems & spoil image.
Try to convience him by
changing his old beliefs
behind orude behaviour.
To bring a change in rude
person is challenge take it.
Vinod Anand 25/06/2019

1599 Earn Respec,raise value

How to earn respect &
raise your value in the
family and society.
* Accept your self, repect
& love your self as you are.
Say I am the best, I love
you & I respect you,looking
your self into the mirror for
few day raise self respect
so other will respect you.
* Be perfect in work, find
your talent & develop it
raise value and respect.
* Don’t be complainer.
Don’t give advise unless
asked in family or society.
* Don’t quote weakness of
any one but compensate.
* Don’t argue, discuss with
any one to raise value.
* Give respect and take
respect is simplest way to
earn respect & raise value.
* Kown everybody love
language to please him
to get respect from him
and raise your value.
Develop human being
quality to have a smart
personality, get respect
and raise your value in
family and society.
Don’t demand respect,
Demand destroy love
respect and value.
Vinod Anand 16/05/2019